Final Paper (Essay #2)

Virtual Friends vs. Real Friends

            Human beings have been involved in social interactions since the beginning of time or at least that’s what the history books have shown. Groups of people spend hours together, getting to know more about each other and enjoying the social interaction. Recently a new form of meeting people has been discovered via the internet. The issue with these sites, such as MySpace or Facebook, is that individuals need to realize not everyone is a true friend. This is also the same with in person, face-to-face friends. On Facebook, a person can have over one thousand friends; how were these friends made, how much should the virtual friends be trusted and are these friends reliable if needed?  These same questions can be asked of face-to-face friends.

            Meeting new people has become easier with the updated technology and the invention of social websites. There are more than five hundred million active users of Facebook alone (Facebook) making it possible to become friends with a college student in Australia or a graffiti artist in London. With over nine hundred million objects to interact with such as pages, events, community pages and groups (Facebook) users can find friends with similar interests as their own. Facebook is an online site that lets you find people and it’s as easy as one click of a mouse to become friends with any other user. There are other ways to meet friends; in the classroom, in college, at work, through friends or wherever life takes place. These people interact with one another and go through their days together or spend time together to get to know one another.

            Not everyone can be trusted; people can betray one another on the internet. Individuals can secretly have different identities. Facebook has a privacy setting that lets the users to control what friends see.  Yet people can always find ways of getting to the information through other information websites, by hacking, or going on another account pretending to be someone else. Sixteen percent of teens consider meeting individuals they have only talked to online and eight percent of them have met someone they had only known online ("Enough is Enough"). Making friends online with the wrong person can spill over into real life, making real life more difficult; causing paranoia, depression, or unsafe feelings. This is why knowing who is really on the other side of that screen is always the best idea. People can have issues with others in everyday life too. It’s a simple fact; everyone lies and not everyone can be trusted. There are fake people in this world and sooner or later you will run into one of them. On the other hand, there are friends a person can trust with anything and all their secrets will be kept safe inside. It just takes the matter of time the individuals spend together, get to know one another and have the chance to get a good feeling on one another.

            Everyone needs a shoulder to lean on from time to time when things get rough. People will go to family and friends; real life friends and the friends found on social websites. Getting in touch with people has become easier with the technology; calling, texting, emailing, and even Facebook.  When communicating with friends on the social networks, who knows if the message will be read or if they will get online within the day or even the week. Unless the user gets online every day, which fifty percent of the Facebook users do log in every day (Facebook), the message may not be received in a timely manner. Just because a person is on your friend’s list doesn’t mean they will be reliable and be there for you. Real friends can be the same way; text messages, phone calls, internet messages can all be ignored. Even doorbell rings, knocking or face-to-face can be ignored. But if a person has that one friend that will be there for anything then it’s one of the best feelings.

            Friends are a part of life; they can help a person through thick or thin if needed. Either virtual or real life, people can be there for one another. One should be a little more careful with friends they have never seen. Always consider how the friend was made, how much this person should be trusted, and if they are reliable. Friends can be beautiful treasure or a knife in the back.

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